Day 063 of 90 · Relationships
I Can Be a Good Friend
12–15 minutes
Center · Stillness
Settle in
Put the phone down. Take one slow breath, and say: “God, I am here. Speak, I am listening.”
Read · The passage
Scripture
In everything, then, do to others as you would have them do to you. For this is the essence of the Law and the Prophets.
Matthew 7:12, BSB
Learn · Reflection
Reflection
Healthy friendships grow strong through small acts of love, respect and attention. Listening, staying close and treating others well can make a huge difference in someone's life. God also wants to help you grow in empathy and kindness, so that you become a friend who brings peace and safety.
Fred Rogers spent much of his life talking with children about feelings, kindness and caring for others.
On his programs he taught something simple but very important: people need to feel seen, heard and valued.
Fred Rogers treated every person with patience and respect, even when that person felt ignored or different.
He understood that small gestures, like listening carefully, acting kindly or giving someone your time, could leave a deep mark on a person's heart.
Sometimes we think that to be good friends we have to do big things. But friendships are usually built out of small gestures: listening closely, staying beside someone who is sad, sharing your time and treating others with respect.
God also wants to teach us to love in ways that are practical and sincere. Being a good friend does not mean being perfect. It means learning to care for people with empathy, kindness and genuine love.
Talk · Conversation
Talk about it
What small gesture makes you feel seen and valued, and who near you needs that same gesture?
Thank · Gratitude
Give thanks
Today I thank God for someone who treated me the way I would want to be treated.
Ask · Prayer
Pray together
God, help me treat people today the way I would want to be treated. Give me eyes to see whoever is feeling forgotten.
Begin · Application
Carry it into the day
Today pick someone who usually goes unnoticed, call that person by name and ask one question about their day.
Scripture quoted from the Berean Standard Bible. Public domain (CC0)