Day 082 of 90 · Relationships
My Family Is Learning Too
12–15 minutes
Center · Stillness
Settle in
Put the phone down. Take one slow breath, and say: “God, I am here. Speak, I am listening.”
Read · The passage
Scripture
with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, and with diligence to preserve the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.
Ephesians 4:2-3, BSB
Learn · Reflection
Reflection
Families go through hard seasons too. They make mistakes, and they change over time. Nobody learns to love perfectly overnight. God can bring growth, patience, and restoration, strengthening relationships little by little.
Joseph's family went through some very hard times. There were mistakes, jealousy, wounds, and decisions that deeply hurt the bonds between parents and children, and between brothers.
For a long time it seemed impossible that this family would ever live in peace again. But as the years passed, God began to lead a process of restoration. Little by little there were reunions, conversations, and new beginnings. That story reminds us of something important: no family is perfect.
Sometimes there are misunderstandings, arguments, tiredness, and moments when we are still learning to love each other better. That can hurt, but it is part of how every family grows.
God does not walk away from families when things get hard. He keeps working in each person's heart, teaching patience, forgiveness, empathy, and love.
You don't have to wait for your family to be perfect before you start learning to love. Very often it is right in the middle of the imperfections that God teaches us to grow together.
Talk · Conversation
Talk about it
Where at home do you most need patience this week?
Thank · Gratitude
Give thanks
Today I thank God that my family does not have to be perfect to be loved.
Ask · Prayer
Pray together
Lord, thank you for not giving up on my family. Teach us to bear with one another in humility and peace.
Begin · Application
Carry it into the day
Think of one person in your family things have been tense with, and do something kind for them today without expecting anything back.
Scripture quoted from the Berean Standard Bible. Public domain (CC0)