Respect Matters

12–15 minutes

Center · Stillness

Settle in

Put the phone down. Take one slow breath, and say: “God, I am here. Speak, I am listening.”

Read · The passage

Scripture

Treat everyone with high regard: Love the brotherhood of believers, fear God, honor the king.

1 Peter 2:17, BSB

Learn · Reflection

Reflection

Respecting other people does not mean thinking exactly like them. It means recognizing the worth and the dignity of every person. God can help you speak with more empathy, more patience, and more consideration, even in the middle of differences or disagreements.

Jacinda Ardern was recognized, again and again, for the respectful and empathetic way she treated people, even in hard and tense situations.

Many people pointed out that she knew how to speak firmly without losing her tenderness toward those who were suffering or who thought differently.

That teaches us something important: respect does not depend on agreeing with everyone. Sometimes we think that to defend our ideas we have to speak harshly or put down whoever thinks differently. But respect is also a sign of maturity and emotional wisdom. God wants to teach us to treat every person with dignity, even when there are differences, mistakes, or disagreements.

Every person was created by God and deserves to be treated with worth and consideration.

Respect can open doors for conversation, build trust, and bring peace to our relationships. Very often it shows more strength than answering with pride or contempt.

Talk · Conversation

Talk about it

Who do you disagree with most right now, and what would it look like to treat that person with respect without hiding what you think?

Thank · Gratitude

Give thanks

Today I thank God for someone who treated me with dignity even though they did not agree with me.

Ask · Prayer

Pray together

Lord, help me honor everyone, including the people who think differently than I do. May my firmness never come with contempt.

Begin · Application

Carry it into the day

In one disagreement today, say what you think without putting the other person down: start by naming one thing you respect about them.

Scripture quoted from the Berean Standard Bible. Public domain (CC0)